Kauai Wedding Officiant Frieda Gayle


My name is Frieda Gayle and I am a licensed and insured Kauai Wedding Officiant (aka wedding minister or marriage performer) with a specialty in non-religious weddings, vow renewals, civil unions, and special celebrations.

I welcome all types of Kauai weddings including traditional, same sex, elopement, simple marriage license signing and even last minute decisions to get married while on Kauai!

What I really want you to know is that I love what I do.  There is nothing that gives me more pleasure than officiating for a couple getting married, or re-committing in a vow renewal.  We choose each other!

Are We a Good Match?

It is important to have someone who really cares and that you can trust, especially if you are coming to Kauai for a destination wedding…

Someone who:

  • is professional
  • is passionate
  • has experience, and
  • is responsive… that’s me!
I am open to individuals from all walks of life and belief systems, therefor specializing in non-religious ceremonies.  While the ceremonies are non-religious, they have a warm and inviting feel to them that reflects your sentiments for each other.

Often couples will mention that they like something with a spiritual flavor.  Yes, I can easily accommodate a spiritual type of ceremony.   I have a knack for making your ceremony very special while at the same time, simple and uncomplicated.  I like to assist you to create your ceremony to be a perfect match for the two of you!

My Background:

  • Resident of Kauai for 30 years.
  • Kauai wedding minister for over 10 years (and counting).
  • Experience as Kauai wedding coordinator and planner.
  • Previously an art gallery director which gives me a feel for a nice ambiance in ceremonial events.
  • Excellent local knowledge of Kauai, the local customs and Kauai wedding venues.
  • Community involvement includes having served on the Board of Directors for the Kauai Chamber of Commerce and as the Chair of the Chamber’s Small Business Committee.
  • Volunteer for several non-profit organizations in the community.
  • Degree in Life Coaching and also a degree in Business and Corporate Coaching which is an asset in clear communication and facilitating your ceremony.
  • Seminar and public speaking experience. (Again, a bonus experience for officiating your ceremony!)

Bottom Line:

  • My experience is an asset for planning and officiating your ceremony!
  • This is a collaboration between us.
  • I want it to be really special, memorable and enjoyable for all of us!
If you are looking for peace of mind and to really experience your wedding ceremony in the moment and to create a beautiful lasting memory… in a simple, non-religious ceremony with lots of support  ~ you are in the right place!

Let’s choose each other for your special day!   

Contact: frieda@kauaiweddingofficiant.com 

Or call 808-482-1999